Better half & education,Intellegent/emotional quationt,comprosing nature the impact on life

Better half & education,Intellegent/emotional quationt,comprosing nature , mutual understanding, adustment,the impact on life

In Hindu Culture Marriages are either arranged or loved one.
In either of the cases factors narrated never be verified or scrutinised.
Resultantly in case of low level education, after initial beginning disappointment, frustration looms large on either party, which lead the disgruntled one to resort to extra marital relations or indifferent towards family & social responsibilities.
If higher education is there ego clash plays pivotal role in happy conjugal life.
in both the cases intelligent & emotional quotients can have crucial role to patch up. With rapid economic growth India has stride in metro culture, western/ urban life style putting aside Hindu culture of joint families, where spiritual life, social service, humanity & generosity & love & affection, emotions, the feeling of forget & forgives where of great importance & equally reciprocal relationship with happy family life is gone away with fast,metrolife culture.
The sentiments of adjustments & compromising which can be said the other side of life's coin the other one is struggle but ultimately in every step of life one has to compromise by one or other way to get the life going,. This sentiment of compromise, sense of mutual adjustment, understanding, honour to each other's likes & dislikes are gone away due to bookish knowledge.
Ongoing situation compels to come to the conclusion that these virtues & human values have great relevancy in life & unfortunately not grasped with education. club culture, friends group of kitty factors can also be described as hurdles. The need of the hour seems to establish culture clubs, morale & ethical groups & NGOs with human values to save breaking family life, social & human values & Hindu culture.

Increasing aspirations,unlimite cravings, neighbour's & surroundings envy - the cause behind breking conjugal/family lives

Increasing aspirations, unlimited cravings, neighbour's & surroundings envy - the cause behind breaking conjugal/family lives

Every passing day people are distracted from real path of life.
as per mythology & history, or as heard & observed before a half century joint families were there. The care of family children in religious, spiritual, customary, traditional way was being taken by aged, experienced & seniors in the family, good cultures were imparted to them by story telling teaching manners & etiquette. which is now no where seen.
In Blind following the western life style we are forgetting all these for which India is remembered globally for it cultural heritage.
In this rapid competitive, fast life where every one wants to put other behind, conjugal life is also becoming tense day by day. Wife * children are used to compare their family life style with others to whom they comes in to contact. They are either feeling inferiority of superiority complexes, force the head of the family to benchmark with others, again blind rush in life , no moral no ethics, no code of conducts are scrupulously followed, any how one wants more luxury, more comfort. which is the root cause of all happiness. If these cravings are kept limited corruptions, malpractices, manipulations & social crimes can also be kept under controlled. can be restrained a days western countries ARE BECOMING MORE SPIRITUAL more corporeal, we are becoming more materialistic. It seems to maintain the concept of human bond ages we will have to commence more NGO's especially to preach in this regard.