As witnessed in every religion Including the great Bhagvad Gita common sermon is to live this material life controlling senses. As has been said in Gita senses are controlling body,mind or mental state is con rolling senses, intelligent quotient is controlling over mind or mental state & ultimately soul is dominating over intelligent quotient. every spiritual leader is preaching to live life controlling self & senses.
From bookish point of view it seems ok. But in practical life to live this corporeal life with abstinence or control in this material world is very very difficult. especially maintianing balance amongst self respect, dignity, human bondage, selfish motive, immotions, sentiments,love & affection.
One may be preapred to sacrifice personal motive, selfish goal but it is not easy to for go dignity or self respect & to live life noraml. If any body does so it is take for granted as ones impotency to resist. Like wise one mmay control over sentiment but not over safety or security. Because health is wealth.
It has been said that if one is unhappy life laugh at one, if one is happy lifesmiles at one but if one is makint others happy life salute at one.
Simultaneously it is also reality that if every time one is going to make other happy how one will make himself happy & when this question may be raised. After all everything has a limaitation like pationce has also.
The comman answer may be if one is saluting it's duty one need not salute any body, but if one pollute it's duty one has to salute everybody. Her the concept of duty is never limited to official or work duty. In broad spectrum duty includes once moral, family, social, national,human responsibilities too. Summing up constitutional responsibilities as a citizen aslo form part of it. & if everybody just honour it automaticaly majority of senses may be controlled.
Also one has to bear in mind that when we are no longer to change the situation we are challenged to challeng ourselves. To fulfill this goal of absinence one must have detrmination, commitment. that's why it has been said that what we see in sleep is not dream but the dream is that which does not allow one to sleep. That can happen l=only strong willpower & firm detrmination is there.
Let us do it.
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Learn from other's experiences a key factor to succeed
It is said that an experience is best teacher. Very true. every body is realising this when s/he experiences self. But many a time when one experiences self it becomes too late to compensate or to rectify the mistake. Because time once elapsed never return.
Thus many of the occasions in the life are such that if one is waiting for self realisation & to implement it becomes too late. Like student life, education, competitive exams etc. where in every body is getting only one chance or in competitive exam quite one more. but that is also at the cost of valuable year.
Same thing is for cultures, edification, manners, etiquettes etc in personal interview.
These are the occasions where in today's generation should share elders experience, learn from it & improve themselves But unfortunately today's generation is either not enough mature or curious enough to do so. Even many a time elders on their own tries to share their experiences today's youth is not quite anxious enough or patient enough to listen the issues to address for them selves at appropriate time. Here youth is making blunder because they are losing precious time from their life too . Today's education system is as such where it never provides for such issues. Parents are helpless & hapless too under the circumstances. Tolerable of youth has gone down, Perhaps they have lost the sense to understand the issues well i n time. Those who do so are making impressive progress in life saluting their elders, parents for teaching them their valuable experiences. Ultimately it is up to youth to explore & grasp. If they do so sky is the limit for their development.
Thus many of the occasions in the life are such that if one is waiting for self realisation & to implement it becomes too late. Like student life, education, competitive exams etc. where in every body is getting only one chance or in competitive exam quite one more. but that is also at the cost of valuable year.
Same thing is for cultures, edification, manners, etiquettes etc in personal interview.
These are the occasions where in today's generation should share elders experience, learn from it & improve themselves But unfortunately today's generation is either not enough mature or curious enough to do so. Even many a time elders on their own tries to share their experiences today's youth is not quite anxious enough or patient enough to listen the issues to address for them selves at appropriate time. Here youth is making blunder because they are losing precious time from their life too . Today's education system is as such where it never provides for such issues. Parents are helpless & hapless too under the circumstances. Tolerable of youth has gone down, Perhaps they have lost the sense to understand the issues well i n time. Those who do so are making impressive progress in life saluting their elders, parents for teaching them their valuable experiences. Ultimately it is up to youth to explore & grasp. If they do so sky is the limit for their development.
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Mix education Women empowerment, a correlation with deteriorating morals & character in the society?
Mix education Women empowerment, a correlation with deteriorating morals & character in the society?
On going scenario, low characters, demoralisation in the society, parting away from ethics - have all these any correlation with mix education system & women empowerment, men women equity?
Now a days situation compel us to ponder in this regard.
Whether it is a patan gang rape incident on student by teachers/ Arushi murder case or incidents of outraging modesty of women at work places.
especially later one has become common to hear.
The reason prima facie seems one or more narrated above.
If the situation compared in vedic era or the period of saints imparting education in their ashrams/ residential cottages undoubtedly seems better than existing one.
At least morals/ ethics/ good virtues where of prime importance.
Male members across the society where obliged to safeguard the interest of women, to nourish & nurture the family was the responsibility of male members of the society while women class was given responsibility of imparting cultures, heritage, modesty, edification and morals. Which are today gone away.
Is not it brinkmanship to have blind rush towards materialistic society, run behind money at the cost of ideal family & social life?
While empowering women & women employment we have created another major problem of male unemployment too. An idle mind is devil's workshop thus this idle youth energy is being forced to divert their energy negatively in the absence of adequate opportunity & simultaneously at various workplace we have invited the risk of safety of women class. Thus loss from both the Angles.
This is the issue corroding the society.
Now time has ripe to rethink regarding existing system. Should we not think to classify certain fields, wherein exclusive women can play the role of character building of the society while rest of the field for men like education/ training, charity & social awareness etc exclusive for women & so on. If steps like this are implemented the importance of inmotion, sentiments, affection can be realised by all section of the society.
On going scenario, low characters, demoralisation in the society, parting away from ethics - have all these any correlation with mix education system & women empowerment, men women equity?
Now a days situation compel us to ponder in this regard.
Whether it is a patan gang rape incident on student by teachers/ Arushi murder case or incidents of outraging modesty of women at work places.
especially later one has become common to hear.
The reason prima facie seems one or more narrated above.
If the situation compared in vedic era or the period of saints imparting education in their ashrams/ residential cottages undoubtedly seems better than existing one.
At least morals/ ethics/ good virtues where of prime importance.
Male members across the society where obliged to safeguard the interest of women, to nourish & nurture the family was the responsibility of male members of the society while women class was given responsibility of imparting cultures, heritage, modesty, edification and morals. Which are today gone away.
Is not it brinkmanship to have blind rush towards materialistic society, run behind money at the cost of ideal family & social life?
While empowering women & women employment we have created another major problem of male unemployment too. An idle mind is devil's workshop thus this idle youth energy is being forced to divert their energy negatively in the absence of adequate opportunity & simultaneously at various workplace we have invited the risk of safety of women class. Thus loss from both the Angles.
This is the issue corroding the society.
Now time has ripe to rethink regarding existing system. Should we not think to classify certain fields, wherein exclusive women can play the role of character building of the society while rest of the field for men like education/ training, charity & social awareness etc exclusive for women & so on. If steps like this are implemented the importance of inmotion, sentiments, affection can be realised by all section of the society.
Monday, April 7, 2008
Ego,Uncomprosing Nature, rising expections,&stubornness leads life to hell
Ego, Uncompromising Nature, rising expectations,&stubbornness leads life to hell
Dt. 7th April 08
In every aspect of life One has to introspect regularly. Unfortunately none is used to. factors normally responsible which leads the life of not only one but of entire family to hell are ego, stubbornness, uncompromising nature & Rising expectations from each others.
If every body learns to think from other's perspective entire problem is solved.
Unfortunately none tries to resort it. Here also ego clash arises.
If each family member just evaluate before sleeping going in to flashback of entire daily routine am sure one will realise where she was wrong, perhaps that may push one to commit omission or commission, apologise opponent & patch the matter ultimately bringing the situation of forgive & forget.
This is the true theory of life.
Every member in the family expects a lot from each other but none is pondering towards his/ her contribution in the family & to the opponent if every one just think this automatically one will realise true picture & expectation will come down rather this may enlighten one to wards his/ her duties to be performed.
if this happen indeed this may true happiness in the family.
No any education institute is going to impart this kind of lesson to family member but one has to learn spontaneously arousing ones conscience.
If one is realising that he/she performs duty Or doing lot that it self is ego. any body doing any thing for the family is never obliging each other whether one may be servicing, professional, housewife or businessman or student doing part time job. After all they all are doing for betterment of family in aggregate. Feeling of this nature is also equally important to keep the family going happy.
Let us make candid efforts in this regard.
Dt. 7th April 08
In every aspect of life One has to introspect regularly. Unfortunately none is used to. factors normally responsible which leads the life of not only one but of entire family to hell are ego, stubbornness, uncompromising nature & Rising expectations from each others.
If every body learns to think from other's perspective entire problem is solved.
Unfortunately none tries to resort it. Here also ego clash arises.
If each family member just evaluate before sleeping going in to flashback of entire daily routine am sure one will realise where she was wrong, perhaps that may push one to commit omission or commission, apologise opponent & patch the matter ultimately bringing the situation of forgive & forget.
This is the true theory of life.
Every member in the family expects a lot from each other but none is pondering towards his/ her contribution in the family & to the opponent if every one just think this automatically one will realise true picture & expectation will come down rather this may enlighten one to wards his/ her duties to be performed.
if this happen indeed this may true happiness in the family.
No any education institute is going to impart this kind of lesson to family member but one has to learn spontaneously arousing ones conscience.
If one is realising that he/she performs duty Or doing lot that it self is ego. any body doing any thing for the family is never obliging each other whether one may be servicing, professional, housewife or businessman or student doing part time job. After all they all are doing for betterment of family in aggregate. Feeling of this nature is also equally important to keep the family going happy.
Let us make candid efforts in this regard.
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