Monday, April 7, 2008

Ego,Uncomprosing Nature, rising expections,&stubornness leads life to hell

Ego, Uncompromising Nature, rising expectations,&stubbornness leads life to hell
Dt. 7th April 08
In every aspect of life One has to introspect regularly. Unfortunately none is used to. factors normally responsible which leads the life of not only one but of entire family to hell are ego, stubbornness, uncompromising nature & Rising expectations from each others.
If every body learns to think from other's perspective entire problem is solved.
Unfortunately none tries to resort it. Here also ego clash arises.
If each family member just evaluate before sleeping going in to flashback of entire daily routine am sure one will realise where she was wrong, perhaps that may push one to commit omission or commission, apologise opponent & patch the matter ultimately bringing the situation of forgive & forget.
This is the true theory of life.

Every member in the family expects a lot from each other but none is pondering towards his/ her contribution in the family & to the opponent if every one just think this automatically one will realise true picture & expectation will come down rather this may enlighten one to wards his/ her duties to be performed.
if this happen indeed this may true happiness in the family.
No any education institute is going to impart this kind of lesson to family member but one has to learn spontaneously arousing ones conscience.
If one is realising that he/she performs duty Or doing lot that it self is ego. any body doing any thing for the family is never obliging each other whether one may be servicing, professional, housewife or businessman or student doing part time job. After all they all are doing for betterment of family in aggregate. Feeling of this nature is also equally important to keep the family going happy.
Let us make candid efforts in this regard.