Material world, changing Nature, divergent views, Intolerability and gigantic & difficult task to accomplish successfully Family responsibility

Much has been written in mythology, literature, historical books, & philosophy regarding moralistic, ethical family life, human bondages, human virtues, principles of life, culture, decorum etc.
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Though we experience & observed in by & large every family the internal disputes, quarrel, differences of opinion, deviation from family attachment & break down of sentimental Or emotional relations i.e. fractures relations.
In majority of the cases where family fails live to gather along with parents & grand parents son is blamed for not maintain balance & harmony..
For indifferent attitude towards the parents, & the cause commonly contemplated is wife of son’s voice prevail Or dominates over the son. Ultimately feeling of the parents, love & affection to them is being either ignored Or neglected.
Over a period of time it has certainly been noticed that it is not true that son/s are no tendency to care parents, or it is also not true that they are not making any efforts to keep harmonious relationship internally. Reasons For the situation can be attributed to :
1/ Generation gap. Parents are having their own ideology, style of living, beliefs,& way of life which normally trails almost two decades to new generation.
Of course their own children & especially daughters also belongs to same generation as of daughter in law/s But though any how they also not succeeded in maintaining equal balance amongst. Their nature, some traditions, orthodox beliefs also play some part. & The most important old age factor does not support them to cop up with the situation.
2/ Daughter in laws seems feeling sense of insecurity & thus tries to dominate over the family matters & all the issues where in they desperately tries to prevail over & persist their voice. This is the same daughter worry for own parents at maternal home & remain helpless spectator in the hapless situation of their parents as they can’t do any thing to cobble the things. But unfortunately seems reluctant to care the feelings of in laws. Reciprocal behavior towards in laws.
3/ This scenario makes son/s very pathetic& aggrieved. They remains churning their heart towards neglecting & ignoring attitude to their parents. Even though of their level best efforts it becomes difficult to maintain the balance. The reason adamant & uncompressing nature of wife.
One of the reason to arise this kind of situation may be education. Cultural moral, ethical & knowledge gap between son & wife. Another may be frustration of the wives what they have observed at their maternal home about her / their parents. Even working women are also no exception rater they7 should be expected more understandable & comprising but in vain The principles of forget & forgive is lacking. Tolerability is found zero. Though of increasing age their maturity unfortunately do not develop leading the wives to be shrew, vixen, stubborn, obstinate & rigid. If evaluated in aggregate wives have been found insensitive & emotionless Ultimately it makes all the efforts of son/s futile to keep the family gather& tie up.
These certainly increases stress level of son/s very high, putting them under tremendous pressure & making tense.
The position of son/s becomes such which can’t be narrated nor tolerated but to suffer.
Our Ramayan , Mahabharat, The Bhagvad Gita are such sources wher in one can found the panacea but majority of wives are reluctant to resort it.
& Our NGO, social organizations, spiritual leaders are making efforts in futile because it works while discourses or preaches only. One of the reason their impact is not found on people is they themselves are not walking on the guided path. Thus their teeth to chew & show found different.
This is most common pandemic family & society is facing not today but since evolution.
If contemplated & assessed profoundly the root cause of corrupt society, demoralized society, dishonesty, disintegraty, misconduct & valueless society lies in this . As when there is no respect for reverends, no honor, no regard, no manners, no ethics or moral in the person, it will not be found in family & thus not in society & nation too.

Summing up one has to accept that time has come to inculcate all these virtues in children from school level to higher education, 7 Even in adult education too to overcome the issue.