Impact of astrology on human lives- An experience sharing
Whether it is called superstition or rigidity but equally it is fact that astrology has a great impact on ones life.
In this modern era many a times if one proposes to match horoscope before marriage a class of people may ridicule the person who propose. But from some of the cases I came across as well as of living case of mine I must say the glaring example of what I have narrated.
In my life I have made my level best efforts to compromise & tried to make an adjustment in every walk of life especially in conjugal life. But its in vein. As The impact of certain stars & some situation in horoscope of spouse & in match making makes it difficult for me every time that to continue the normal walk of life I compelled to for go even dignity or status too. Many a time I was thinking education of spouse an ssc may be obstacle on her part to understand the problem ,to discern & to decide but in day to day family life it is of not that much importance. Even illiterate fellow can understand common situation & find out the solution. After all it is nothing but adjustment but if one is adamant & not ready to understand situation, not ready to leave obstinate, or stubbornness, & every time remained captious, snubbing Or fault finder to whom to blame? Nobody in conjugal life prefers such a stressful life & struggle at every moment. If issue is such than one may think the seriousness but for even a futile issue spouse goes in anti direction for the sack of ego, to nourish obstinate attitude putting aside esteem of spouse even being a house wife, under the circumstance obviously one will be forced to look into astrological aspects. Which on study found the situation that every time house wife’s stubbornness will be a major factor & male spouse will have to surrender before situation. This looks quite strange & peculiar but at least I failed to find way Even after trying spiritual & philosophical aspects also.. Many a times situation also compelled me to think profoundly why highly qualified, well educated, good earning male are also forced to surrender against situation. Perhaps his status, dignity, social honor, morals, ethics, understanding of high nature, spirituality, & philosophy are the factors forced the person to compromise forgetting ego. In common parlance t people might be narrating such situation Telling male spouse as obsequious, submissive to female but actually it is chauvinisms.
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Relationship of honourings each other's feeling on daily family life
Relationship of honouring each other's feeling on daily family life.
It has a great relevancy in our daily life of honouring each others feelings If accepted & honoured it has very positive effect & result too in family life. If not one has to face the consequences of it not only him/her self but also for entire family & many a time society too.
Every body in the family might have witnessed that whenever elder family member has advised any thing to younger or head of family has expressed any view always youngsters have either not liked it or if heard ignored it. In the life of every body this vicious circle is going on & completes full circle when the same youngster is facing similar situation in ones life. Whether it is a matter of nurture, nourishment, imparting culture, adhering ethics, education of children, social occasions, matrimony, business, service or any household matters. Elder or head of family has always rationale, logic & plausibility in advising OR coming to any conclusion but unfortunately the similar situation is not faced by rest & youngsters they don't like & accept it. Even it is a matter of experience too for elders to share with rest & to save them from the situation what he had faced earlier. But perhaps it is human tendency too that unless one personally experience one is not ready to accept it or learn lesson.
That's why it is said that the person who is not learning from past mistakes & experience is greatest fool of the world. Even God may not be able to save such foolish from problems, difficulties & troubles.
That's why it seems that this kind of experience sharing study should also be part of school/college curricula.
It has a great relevancy in our daily life of honouring each others feelings If accepted & honoured it has very positive effect & result too in family life. If not one has to face the consequences of it not only him/her self but also for entire family & many a time society too.
Every body in the family might have witnessed that whenever elder family member has advised any thing to younger or head of family has expressed any view always youngsters have either not liked it or if heard ignored it. In the life of every body this vicious circle is going on & completes full circle when the same youngster is facing similar situation in ones life. Whether it is a matter of nurture, nourishment, imparting culture, adhering ethics, education of children, social occasions, matrimony, business, service or any household matters. Elder or head of family has always rationale, logic & plausibility in advising OR coming to any conclusion but unfortunately the similar situation is not faced by rest & youngsters they don't like & accept it. Even it is a matter of experience too for elders to share with rest & to save them from the situation what he had faced earlier. But perhaps it is human tendency too that unless one personally experience one is not ready to accept it or learn lesson.
That's why it is said that the person who is not learning from past mistakes & experience is greatest fool of the world. Even God may not be able to save such foolish from problems, difficulties & troubles.
That's why it seems that this kind of experience sharing study should also be part of school/college curricula.
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